Why do ‘specially-irritating, joy-goalies get drafted into our journeys just to block our serene direction? Have you ever had to shed snags in your flow-system? Does this notion sound horribly anti-social to you?
SHUT the door to psychic vampires or two-faced friends! Everybody doesn’t have to know everybody.
SHUT the door to psychic vampires or two-faced friends! Everybody doesn’t have to know everybody.
With circles turning at infinitely varying rates of vibration, (like chakras of energy in fact), circles must part at the realization of vast canyons separating. When those denser circles lighten upward, some reunion becomes synergetic to the energetic hoops that co-exist, not in siphoning each other’s nimbus. Some frequencies are denser while other sparks charge off quicker, lighter…isn’t it true that harmony is found in like-frequencies?
I know in my own life, I’ve been leeched on by psychic vampires and left for deaf by the white noises. As we journey, our arcs refine our frequency or we degrade our vibration to murkier tones. We expand or we contract, we repulse or we magnetize. A company toasts success, a marriage detonates in divorce, a friendship decomposes from personality B.O., a new relationship is realized with serene consideration.
All of these and more are the changing of the channels, the surfing of gnarly breaks in search of those perfect pipes where it all forward-flows. I might shed twenty filler people just to find one “to keep.” Conversation is an exercise in listening for the frequencies, and don’t you notice, when you’re aggravated by certain types around you? It’s usually because some pitch in their approach is off-key to your ear, or they’re filching you in your personal ethics-wallet. Differing channels, though they clash, make up the variety of the human show.
What I am really getting at, is that relationships which grow you, support you, understand you, listen to you, share with you, or any of the positive relationship behaviors which enhances your sense of well-being and feeling connected, are worth the time in investment. Many of us have accumulated negative-charged people along our paths who for whatever reason, became enmeshed with us and have proven to be unreliable, condescending or judgmental, disturbing to our sense of self and personal esteem, who take every occasion to denounce what we do, who we are, always offering a take-down when what we really need is an uplifting, and often times, one may note such people are at a deficit in their own qualitative character department. It is to these people that we ought to offer our indifference, and disengage from them, creating significant spaciousness between their rip-down world and our own healing journey.
In liberated Spirituality, it is permissible to NOT offer the other cheek, and simply detach from those attacking vibrations which set our own inner harmonic tempo into discord or chaos. If such people in our lives are there for lessons, we must decide when the lesson has fulfilled its purpose for us to grow, and move on...and if such people are meant to circle back to us, having learned that we will not tolerate the negativity that was established, before we were aware of what is tolerable to us, then they have grown and are meant to be in our lives; but one must be vigilant for patterns of behavior, and remember, that personal work entails changing established neural pathways of the mind, which in turn changes behavior, and some people take a long time to change behaviors that are who they are and how they interact with the world.
Breathe deeply, and listen for that telling "inner ping" and one will know exactly where the other's vibration has gone...or gong-showed ;) I listen for frequencies, and I ask by the tuning fork of my own intentions: harmony…synchronicity…evolution.
What I am really getting at, is that relationships which grow you, support you, understand you, listen to you, share with you, or any of the positive relationship behaviors which enhances your sense of well-being and feeling connected, are worth the time in investment. Many of us have accumulated negative-charged people along our paths who for whatever reason, became enmeshed with us and have proven to be unreliable, condescending or judgmental, disturbing to our sense of self and personal esteem, who take every occasion to denounce what we do, who we are, always offering a take-down when what we really need is an uplifting, and often times, one may note such people are at a deficit in their own qualitative character department. It is to these people that we ought to offer our indifference, and disengage from them, creating significant spaciousness between their rip-down world and our own healing journey.
In liberated Spirituality, it is permissible to NOT offer the other cheek, and simply detach from those attacking vibrations which set our own inner harmonic tempo into discord or chaos. If such people in our lives are there for lessons, we must decide when the lesson has fulfilled its purpose for us to grow, and move on...and if such people are meant to circle back to us, having learned that we will not tolerate the negativity that was established, before we were aware of what is tolerable to us, then they have grown and are meant to be in our lives; but one must be vigilant for patterns of behavior, and remember, that personal work entails changing established neural pathways of the mind, which in turn changes behavior, and some people take a long time to change behaviors that are who they are and how they interact with the world.
Breathe deeply, and listen for that telling "inner ping" and one will know exactly where the other's vibration has gone...or gong-showed ;) I listen for frequencies, and I ask by the tuning fork of my own intentions: harmony…synchronicity…evolution.
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